Is there any chances that it could be a date? I know there's no real chance for a relationship as she is visiting but she is definitely showing interest , which could mean she would be up for a hook up? What do you guys think?
Most Helpful Girl
Be your charming self and just have fun with your friend. By extending the coffee to dinner, you offered her more time for emotional support which is awesome. Don't *expect* anything, but be ready. You'll know if she wants something after dessert or not. If she wants to get physical, do you want that? Be ready and be safe. If she doesn't then you probably still have a good basis for rekindling your friendship and maybe steering it to one that's more romantic.
Most Helpful Guy
Expect her actions to contradict what she says. Expect her not to make much sense, to eventually blow hot and cold, and expect her to have several guys on the go. Do not expect her to be innocent. Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed.
If you care too much about the outcome, walk on eggshells during conversation, are afraid you might offend her with an opinion, or are too nice, you won't see her again... until she needs a shoulder to complain on.