*they have been friends for about a month or two longer than my boyfriend and I
*shes a drunk ass hoe (literally)
*they've made out 2x before (they were drunk apparently)
*she claims to not want to talk to me/puts in 0 effort to be my friend when I tried
*right b4 we started dating, he slept in her bed w her (just slept)
*he used to go to her to make me jealous when we would argue
*Becky used to post ALL the time when they were together
*She always called him when she was drunk to get rides, this was LITERALLY every day. Only called him?
So now that we've been dating she's out of the pic, and she left the country for 2 weeks which was nice. But while we were scrolling through snap on his phone (cuddling and watching stories), I've seen every single time that they've been talking, like within the past 12 hours. It's annoying how she still gets attention from him when he has 0 other gal pals. Here's ss of our convo: (NOTE: Ashley is Becky's friend, Scooby is the name of our groupchat)
Do I have a right to be slightly suspicious? Is it okay that this upsets me?
Most Helpful Guy
your relationship is only 2 months, so try to work on building trust. he hasn't done anything wrong and he shouldn't be responsible for your insecurities of he did nothing wrong. you can bad talk her and make her your enemy as much as possible but he's still friends with her. it's the same as he has no right to tell you to stop talking to a guy you made out with months ago.1
Most Helpful Girl
He was defensive from John he wants you not to handle it because he doesn't want her to say something to you that will prove true anytime a man tells you don't worry about it he got it handled but you're seeing something different you should always question that this is your life I don't know if you're having sex protected or not but if you're not and he's having sex with her and you and she can leave out the country and come back and you don't know who she's sleeping with you can catch something always be cautious of who you're with I'm going to say that I can't say if he's doing something wrong or not but from what I'm reading or maybe it's just me but to me he seemed very defensive I will say something to her and then she said she has proof of them being together would ever have her send her proof if she don't have any proof and she's just jacking him off all show him what she said and leave it alone I think females and males can be friends if it gets to the creepy side where seems like they're doing something or they're together confront both of them at the same time don't worry about getting into a fight with her because her but for some reason he doesn't want you to talk to her like he's hiding something maybe it's just me maybe I'm reading way too far into it and it could be nothing but it's always best to be cautious1