Most Helpful Girl
So don't do what you did on the first date.
Find a way to have more time to talk but heighten the stakes a little. If you just want to dinner, do an activity like ice skating where you will probably have to lean on each other and have those physical interactions. Builingd that tension between you two is the goal of dates 2 and 3; if it's not there, you'll know.
They don't have to be more costly, they just need to bring you two together more
Most Helpful Guy
“Do you want to come over to mine for dinner?”
Women read this as “if you come to my house I will try to have sex with you”
So I’d be cautious on that one.
Also please never confuse extravagance for the need to spend a lot of money on something. Just because you’re on date 1/2/3 whatever date doesn’t mean you have to throw money at it.