Which of these texts is more likely to get me the date with her?

Option 1 : long laragraph about my feings

Its been a while, and I like being friends with you, but I want us to be something more.
I was an idiot not to talk and get to know you better last year, and now I know how great a girl you are. I still want to go out on that date and give it a shot.
You know i like you, and i get things may be complicated and all, but I need to know how you feel...

option 2 : quick to the point

I've been thinking
I never got to take you out on that date :(

Lets go to see that new Pitch Perfect movie the day after Christmas. Sound like a plan?

She used to really like me last school year
I wasn't as interested then
I starting talking to her a lot more this year
She started showing signs of liking me again

I told her how i feel, she said she loves me but the time isn't right (shes really busy) she's sorry, hopes i understand

I said i undersrand, but maybe we could do something in a couple weeks

she said Yes

Its been two months since then.
We still talk a lot
She acts a little hot and cold sometimes. One week she really seems to like me the next not as much
I think the spark may have gone out a little. I made a mistake in not accepting her advances he first time and then waiting too long the next.


She knows i like her, and i really want to make this work, but i also dont want to look desperate or annoying. Which of the above texts is more likely to get me a date with her?
  • Text 1
    Vote A
  • Text 2
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Short and simple, don’t want to put to much stress. And some girls may not want to read something to long. Long messages are meant to be said to a face, not a phone. Keep this in mind for the future to.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Option 3: Ask her in person. You're not a kid anymore, and saying it to her face is infinitely more meaningful full than just sending her a text message


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What Girls Said 2

  • Option 2 but replace the sad face with a wink!

  • Option2 but with a confident face rather than sad... if she gets into talking more about it then explain more then, but just test the waters first and see how she responds first.


What Guys Said 1

  • Option 2 but a bit better than you've done it there and don't go to the movies for a first or second date as there isn't much talking going on


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