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I did that. He responded. I'm just second guessing since we haven't been hanging out that much
I think it really matters how you say it, shouldn’t be in a distressing way, like you are bothered, more like you have other options that you feel you want to pursue
Hm. I like the way you said that
What kind of things would you say on fb messenger?
Wasn't anything i said regularly but I'll admit i was being a bit weird. Can't remember exactly what i said but she said i was acting like a dick afterwards so and we kinda fell out after that then spoke again and fell out again... Good times. Hope this helps you.
Sorry that happened to you but yes, it helped a bit
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He's responding. I'm just confused
He takes forever to text me back. Feels like he going to pull another disappearing act
Could be done on purpose. Men are usually advised not to text back right away, in order not to appear needy.
Seems like games to me which I don't have time for
When they play games, I always think in this:cdn.mos.cms.futurecdn.net/...67c2aa859fc86d1cf.jpg
😂😂😂. Love it. I screenshot that
He started taking forever to text me back last month. Even before finals. I haven't seen him in a little over a month. When school break started, he did start texting more but it just isn't the same. He act like he doesn't want to be together after I told him I didn't mind anymore (after getting back into contact he wanted to be with me but I told him we should get to know each other again)
hope that makes sense. Just really sad
What if he's just a bad texter?
He says he is but he was doing fine in the beginning. Feels like a lost of interest to me
Could it be possible you're reading too much into things?
Probably but I can't help that. I try to change but it's hard to when it feels like he's going to pull another disappearing act
Why don't you go on a date with him and if you don't like him after then. Call it off.
I do like him. I love mostly everything about him. It's just the not seeing him and him not like a normal person. Ik he looks at his phone regularly as well
You don't have to be a normal person to date. Just know what you like and expect from a relationship.
But is expecting him to not take forever to text back unrealistic?
Ok you discussed this with him. What did he say?
There's always a reason. It started off that he fell asleep. Then it was his phone was gone. Then he typed the messages but didn't send it
Ok those sound like excuses
My thought. I just hate it because I know how negative I can I be so I am trying to be more positive
Maybe tell him all this?
I have. Either he's telling the truth or a good liar
Then hope he's telling the truth. You're going to have to learn trust people if you want a relationship
That is my main problem and one reasons I believe I am not relationship material
No that's something you can learn to do. Maybe you're not right now. But that's something you can work up to.