How to stop being selfless and maternal with guys I like?

As an older sister I had to support my brother emotionally all the time. I was his rock to lean on. Everytime when I like a guy I kinda see my younger brother in them and get very caring, gentle and maternal. In truth I am quite selfish, tomboyish, non-gentle type... But I can't help feeling maternal when I like a guy and I feel like I am at risk of being taken advantage of and also I feel like I am way more adventurous and wild when I don't like anyone. Liking someone kinda restricts me. I hate it. What to do?

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What Guys Said 2

  • Sounds to me like you are more attracted to the looks than the personality then possibly?

    You want to find someone with your interests then you may feel ok being your usual self?

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  • That's confusing. Lol

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  • But isn't that a good thing? Guys really like when their girl is caring and gentle to them.
    If the guy you're with is a good guy he will appreciate you caring for him and not take advantage of you.

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