As an older sister I had to support my brother emotionally all the time. I was his rock to lean on. Everytime when I like a guy I kinda see my younger brother in them and get very caring, gentle and maternal. In truth I am quite selfish, tomboyish, non-gentle type... But I can't help feeling maternal when I like a guy and I feel like I am at risk of being taken advantage of and also I feel like I am way more adventurous and wild when I don't like anyone. Liking someone kinda restricts me. I hate it. What to do?