So you wouldn’t date a girl that’s 5’5?
No. They wouldn't date me anyway- last time I tried, she took one look at me, turned her nose up at me and sauntered off, tossed out a comment about how short I was and how under-endowed I probably was on her way back out. Every single bitch on this earth is a size queen; the only way to get a girl's respect is through total domination. And you can't do that without a massive height and size advantage over them, unless you either have blackmail material on them (nigh-on impossible these days, since they're no longer ashamed of anything they do no matter how shameful it is), or societal freedom to use physical force against them.
I think you’re being a little ridiculous!
See @Crystal6296 for a perfect example of what I'm talking about. All girls are like that. It's just a question of how overt and honest they are about it.
Dude not every girl is like that there are plenty of girls that would date a guy the same height as them
Riiiight. Keep telling yourself that. And that they don't sneak around cheating on their guys, or lust after giants' cocks every night.
So 170 cm is a deal breaker? That’s still taller than you
Yeah, that's a deal breaker. And in heels 170cm is already shorter than me.
What if he preferred to date girls your height? Would that make a difference?
What if he wore heel lifts and you dated him and then you found out later, would you break up with him?
His preferences wouldn't matter if my preferences aren't met. Also, short guys usually have short legs with long torsos, which looks awkward.
As for him wearing heel lifts, his legs would still be short, an obvious sign.
What if he had long legs and a short torso?
Still not into short guys (and to this day I haven't seen a short dude with long legs and a short torso)...And from my bad experiences with short people while growing up made me unable to feel attracted to people shorter or of the same height as me.
So a guy your height would be a deal breaker even if you though he was attractive?
I can't bring myself to find short guys attractive, so what you said would be an oximoron.
What if you saw a short guy and happened to think he was attractive and he liked you?
My overall insecurity for being ridiculed for being too big would get in the way. That way both of us would feel miserable, so it's better to avoid such situations. Imagine one of your really big deal breakers, then you find a girl who is overall good but has that one trait you consider a deal breaker. You get into a relationship with her and you would start to notice that deal breaker of yours more and more, till it makes you self concious to be seen with them (a type of deal breaker which can't be changed).
If I saw a really hot chick that was taller than me I wouldn’t care at all even if she wore heels all the time
And why would you feel too big if he was the same height as you?
Because by default I'm attracted to slimmer guys (toned ecto- and mesomorph), but I have a wide bone structure (I'm far from fat, so far that I'm underweight 😂, but I have broad shoulders and wide hips which make me look big), so a shorter guy who has a toned ectomorph or slim mesomorph body type would look smaller than me in comparison.
The guy wouldn’t be shorter than you, he would be the same height. And lets say he’s a toned muscular mesomorph in great shape. You said you have broad shoulders and wide hips, that’s the hourglass shape that girls want. I don’t see anything wrong with that
I didn't say shorter, I said smaller. Smaller means that he occupies less space than me. And I'm attracted to this body type the most: 78.media.tumblr.com/.../...e_na08k5RpHF1sdugr5.gif(I'm not a K-pop fan, but ever since I found this gif, I use this for giving examples for what I consider an ideal body type for men.)
You prefer slim over muscular?
Yes. As surprising as that is, not all girls are into only one body type, as guys seem to imagine.
How tall are you?
What if he was the same height as you?
Through rigorous academic study, I have determined that men feel emasculated when women are their height or taller. I like wearing heels. I shouldn’t be shamed into going without because y’all feel less of a man.
What if he didn’t care if you wore heels? Then would it be ok?
Meh, but I would still prefer someone taller.
So 5’11 is fine but 5’9-5’10 is a deal breaker?
You said that, not me. You asked for the ideal height.
I’m asking, would you ever consider dating a guy the same height as you or an inch shorter if he preferred your height and was ok with you wearing heels?
I have before, and that wasn’t the case.
I’m saying if it was, would that be ok? I like dating girls exactly the same height as me and I love it when they wear heels!
Except I’m not dating you.
Well I’m actually shorter than you anyway
But I wouldn’t have any problem dating a girl taller than me
Would it be a deal breaker if he was 5’7?
Yes cuz we eye level and genetic matter to me. If he's tall I find out then who else in his families tall, and learn about him because my interest would be as a single woman to potentially date , have a commitment type relationship and breed lol this is what some women do and in one of em like me we have an idealistic image of what we would like our potential mate to look like etc. His mental heart body and soul has to be right before I look at the superficial height and stuff but I, we ladies do look at that and take it in to consideration.
What if he was 5’8?
What’s wrong with someone your height?
Nothing wrong with him outwardly he's just not as tall as I'd "ideally"like. My ex is 6'5" another is 6'1" shortest I dated was 5'4" and it just didn't seem right and he had that short man complex. I've opted since him not to date short guys they feel some type way when even someone my "normal" female height is taller than them. Beside reality is: size doesn't really matter, it's what's on the inside of a person's mind should heart etc. But if I wanna ever have tall son's their fathers lineage should be tall from mother being about 5'9" & up and father being 5'11" & up and same or so about the grandparents. That would give an ideal how tall your child "might" be or become.
What if he was 5’9? Is that ok? And would you still wear heels?
I wear heels all the time and I already says I don't date men that are shorter than 5 feet 11 inches. On a dating site and that's exactly what I put. And he can't have kids. Not dealing with no one's ex or b m
So 5’10 would be a deal breaker?
Omg I've answered this already. Yes it would be a deal breaker.
But that’s 3 inches taller!
Lol your too cute
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That’s the perfect height for a girl!
Would you still wear heels if he was the same height?
I don’t like heeels lol
But if you wore heels would you still date someone your height?
Yeah. It really doesn’t matter to me if they’re shorter
I’m your height or maybe shorter and I like dating girls my height or a little taller!
Is that weird?
Not at all
Is that common?
I don’t know. I guess
What do most people prefer?
Girls or guys?
Guys normally like shorter and girls usually like taller..
So not many guys like their height or taller, and not many girls like their height or shorter? What percent do you think it is?
Do you think it’s a deal breaker for most people?
Would 170 cm be a deal breaker?
170 is good
Would you still wear heels?
Yes I would
Between 5'6-5'7" cannot tell exactly. Sometimes I'm closer to 5'6, sometimes I'm closer to 5'7.
So why would 5’9 be ideal?
As I said it's a matter of symmetry. A 5'6" 110 pounds body, would look better next to a 5'9" 140 pounds body, than a 5'3" 140 pounds body for example.
What if she was the same height as you?
Hmmm, guess she should be about the same weight too. Say between 105-115 pounds, since I'm ~110 myself.
Why would you want her to be heavier?
If she was 5'4", I'd rather her to be skinnier. But finding such skinny girl is difficult. So heavier is a better option. I mean it's easier to find a 5'9" 140 lbs girl, than a 5'4" and 95 pounds girl, right?
So you wouldn’t date a girl that’s 175 cm?
It's not a huge deal, i would date her why not
Would you let her wear heels?
No 😂 i have to be taller at all times
So 176 would be a deal breaker? I don’t think she would date you if you didn’t let her wear heels
Yes 176 is a deal breaker i don't care the exact height but i should always look taller no matter what she's wearing or what I'm wearing
Why is that such a big deal? It’s not even noticeable
What if she was into that?
I have to be able to see the top of her head, it's a guy thing bro.And i don't know of any girl who's into dating shorter guys just for the the sake of it, that's weird, but I'm not opposed to the idea, i just personally would rather be with a girl who's shorter than me
But you would have a problem dating a shorter girl that was taller in heels?
I would ask her not to wear them, but that's why I said 5-20cm so even if she's wearing heels i would still be taller
I don’t think she would like it if you asked her not to wear them. What if she was the same height as you in heels?
In that case no problem
Lol because it’s such a huge difference right
I'm a solid 5'9". Average range for a man.
Would 5’8-5’9 be a deal breaker?
No, not at all , she might be taller than me in heels though lol
Would you date a girl that was 5’10?
Come to think of it, why the hell not, tall girls are pretty sexy, and i could have tall kids lol.
If the girl was 5'10", probably not lol because if im in thick heeled boots and she's in regular shoes lol we'd look the same height.
What if she was 5’8-5’9?
If she was 5'7" I'd let her wear heels , any taller though. I think not.
She probably wouldn’t date you if you didn’t let her wear heels
So maybe I'd let her lol.
5'6"...I can still dream right?
Would it be a deal breaker if she was also 5’6?
5'6" would definitely not be a dealbreaker, just not ideal. Not sure about 5'7", it's probably going to make me feel unconfortable and/or insecure.
Would you let her wear heels if she was 5’6?
I'd prefer it if she doesn't wear heels in public next to me.
Why would 5’6 be fine but 5’7 wouldn’t?
I don't know to be honest.
Like if she had no problem with it why would you? Would it be a deal breaker if she insisted on wearing heels?
No, but I wouldn't like it. Would make me feel uncomfortable. Don't ask why.
What if he was 170cm? Is that ok or is that a deal breaker?
My current boyfriend is a bit shorter than me or my height... I wouldn't care less.
So 5’9 is a deal breaker?
Would you still let her wear heels?
Hmm its not important but prefer not.
So would 5’10-5’11 be a deal breaker?
5"11 is tall for me, but height is not a deal breaker for me
Would 5’6 be a deal breaker?
I am 2 foot 5
7 ft tall
That’s a perfect height for a girl!
I like my height too :)