Well we had a fallout and said we shouldn't talk for a few weeks and i dont want to message him incase i get the dreaded feeling of saying i have been ignored. Do guys like letters or find them cringey?
Guys do just as much as girls do. I normally take the approach of sending a positive and upbeat message and ask how things are going. This sends enough of an invitation to open a conversation without sounding needy or clingy. Normally I wind up not feeling self-conscious which is what you really want to avoid. If they don't message back, you know you have made a genuine effort to be friendly and they have some unresolved issues as well. That is my cut on the situation and my recommendation to you.
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