We were suppose to go out yesterday. She texted me randomly & said “Sooooo I heard the roads are really bad”
I automatically assumed she just wanted to get out of the plans. So I told her “they are. Maybe some other time.” She said “oh okay!, sounds good”
Then she followed up with “I hope you don’t think I was making an excuse! I just wasn’t sure what your plan was. Or where we were going. I just want you to be safe.
I’m sorry if what I said came across as rude”
I told her “you’re completely fine! Like I said, some other time”
Our mutual friend called her and sneakily got info from her. I guess she took it as I was “mean”. & that I barely show interest in general. (I don’t want to scare her off) I DO show her interest and plan dates that’s all. She’s very attractive so she gets tons of attention, so I limit how much I do. (Don’t want to look needy).
So I called her last night (hours after) & apologized and said we had a misunderstanding. She said “okay.” I asked her how her day was & she told me but was short & didn’t even ask how my day was or anything. Then we hung up.
Did I screw it all up? What should I do.
She suppose to be at a NYE party I’m going to. I wanted to keep the flame on until then, but looks likes I put it out