Was changing my dating preference a good idea?

I’m actually quite tired and sick of failures in my social life. I’m a guy turning 23 next year in March. I have never been in relationship whatsoever. I have been getting rejected by girls from time to time.

1) I’m not an introvert and shy. I can effortlessly talk to people.
2) I having trying online dating websites and apps such as tinder, bumble, okcupid, international Cupid... etc. I haven’t had any luck whatsoever. I didn’t even get one match.
3) I work out.
4) I have a good paying job.
5) I’m very average looking.
6) I take time to build friendships with girls that I’m interested in. I dont approach random girls and ask them out on dates. The girls that rejected me are the ones I know.

Here’s what I have done. I have changed some of my preferences. I’m trying out gay dating apps and see if I can find guys. I’ve had a very milder lever of success. Don’t get me wrong. I’m a straight guy. I’m not bisexual or curious or anything. It’s just that I’m pushing myself into another direction to get some dating and relationship experience. I feel that chasing girls and even building basic friendships with them only results in me getting rejected.

What do you think about my shift?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • It is up to u.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Just be yourself and be patient. Don't worry about dating all that much. Work is important.

    But I do feel like you should be more adventurous and ask out some random girls that you don't know.

    • I do that as well.

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    • I always get out of comfort zone. I don’t have any success whatsoever. I’m getting hopeless and insecure day by day. Girls don’t like inexperienced dudes.

    • I want to experience my first relationship.

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  • If you're really straight then you know that you can't "try" to be gay. 😂😂🤣😂😂

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  • Yes good idea


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