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Rarely do we appear as ugly as mirror suggests - most common among models, high class gals in airline/other services where this matters in interviews. So am saying GO OUT and get over it.
Most often the gals that give it up (sex) have low self esteem, the lowest even prefer bondage and being a slave to someone dominant. So am saying DON'T GO OUT if anyone is making you feel this way or making it worse.
I suggest making a list of tings/events that would draw you out
and post these next to the phone/whatever is used to ask you out.
You might also post a list of those wanting dates and sort them as to preference/attractiveness or how comfortable you are with them.
Next caller that rates fairly high on list and will change his outing offering to something on your event list IS the winner of an outing with you, no excuses YOUR NEW RULE
Think about it
Life's too short
and these fun outings when single may soon peter off due to age & "everyone's married" filters