I act flirty like I once invited a girl over to my house she sat cuddled up to me on my couch and literally my face was inches away from hers and I looked in her eyes and wanted to kiss her so bad
So why didn't you?
Cause we aren’t dating and she wasn’t single at the time but she had a very abusive boyfriend
Then why did you invite her in the first place.
@Lazyrous cause she wanted to talk and I wasn’t working that day so I told her to come over
"she wasn’t single at the time, but she had a very abusive boyfriend" Oh yes she was single then, esp if you could beat his ass LOL.
@Mistnigqa808 well when she told me the things he was doing I wanted to beat his ass but the thing is you can’t save a girl who dosent want saved
Oh, I'm not saying play "capt n save a hoe" and potentially get yourself killed over their BS. But if she was cuddling with you close enough to the part where you would have been able to kiss her and shit yeah... that's an unofficial single woman. And my hands would have been rubbing that booty and titties while trying to get some bumping and grinding going on LOL
@Mistnigqa808 she even said with her head on my shoulder sometimes I feel like it was meant for me to be in your life
With so many signals, you basicaly answered your own question.
And that's why you're always the friend.
Ok but I thought she was starting to like me she told me deep personal things about herself she cuddled up to me truthfully I thought I could have made her my girlfriend but I ended up getting rejected and she dated another guy and nowadays she calls me creepy and obsessed cause I’m pissed off she played with my emotions the way she did
That type anyway, that you get in with while she's in a fucked up relationship, it's no good for you anyway. Especially guys like you. You'll just be the safe guy who's shoulder she cries on til she gets back with him or meets another guy, like a rebound thing.And really even if a girl likes you, if you just don't make any moves for too long, lots will eventually just see you as a friend and then you're just stuck as the friend. You have to actually make moves on them. A guy you hang out with is a friend, a guy who actually makes moves can be more. You just have to do it. Like I still don't really understand why you didn't just kiss that girl because she gave you every signal to. And girls in relationships don't get all cuddled up with some other guy if it's anything serious.
Cause I never knew what to believe she said she didn’t like me that way or would never date me yet she did things like what she was doing
Yeah just avoid that type of girl. They're good at getting into guys heads too.
Yeah she has managed to convince everyone I’m crazy and now everyone turned against me saying I’m being irrational
Just stop talking to her?
I did but I lost friends in the process and as shitty as this was I don’t know if I wanna try to date again cause I had good intentions because I’m a good hearted guy who believes that a women should be treated like a queen
Yeah... not all women do.
Wellp, look what your good hearted behavior got you in. Haha jk.
@Lazyrous ok but look what her behavior got her right back in an abusive relationship
Wellp, i guess thats what she prefers then. Better fish in the seaa
And seriously man you can’t convince me that treating women like shit is the way to dating them cause like I said I was raised right. When you feel the need to degrade and dog women it says a lot about you as a person not in a good way. Women abusers never end up getting away with what they do either someone in public takes care of them or they get fucked in prison
I'm not saying its right way. i was just saying she made her choice, and she likes him the way he is i guess. Just because you are raised right doesn't mean everyone must see you as a dateable person now.
#Asker i dont agree with physically abuse or any abuse for that matter when it comes to both men and women, but i will say this , that "good behavior" screwed you over this time in the sense of you not pouncing on her when ya had the chance ^_^. Because just like any good hearted person (notice i said person and not just a "guy" LOL) you didn't want to take advantage of her knowing she had a guy in her life. So in that case "treating her" like shit or "how she really wanted to be treated" would have meant what i orginally said of basicaly "freaking her ass down" while saying fuck her boyfriend because he couldn't have meant that much if she was even willing to cuddle with you ^_^
@Lazyrous I’m not saying that basically what I’m saying is I offer a girl a chance at a normal life full of happiness without the fear of being attacked or put down. But like you said it is entirely up to her to choose the type of lifestyle she wants to live cause truthfully some people get off on that stuff.
physical* willing to cuddle with you to begin with* basically*
Wow such great advice
Nothing wrong with treating good girls good. This one was not a good girl. Good girls don't cosy up with some guy when she has a boyfriend.
Yeah, i guess she loved her boyfriend that she didn't wanna leave him. At the same time she wants the kinder attention from the asker. Basicaly using him.
@Lazyrous yeah and everyone I talk to says she wasn’t using me
A woman wants to know that you're her man not her girlfriend
@darrinp1 the guy she’s dating right now is timid and scared of everything
Be non threatening be just a friend if that's all she's able to take on right now there's no need to push it just take it easy take your time
@darrinp1 this is the stuff that makes me not want to date cause I legitimately don’t understand it people say girls don’t go for cowherds and pussys but this girl just rejected me for one. This dude will literally kiss anyone’s ass just so they are nice to him he’s timid around women. He a depressed metal head that says off the Wall depressing shit all time
The girl sounds dumb. The abusive guy, this metal guy. She probably thinks the stuff he says is out there and deep. Because she's dumb. Why are you so caught up on this one girl who didn't do right by you? Who used you for comfort and company then fucked you off as soon as something better came along. You honestly need to let her go.And learn from this one too. It's not always bad to get into these situations since it can teach you more for next time and help you there, it's just really bad if you don't learn from it and go back to the same girl or carry on getting the same type of girl after.
I have done that and girls just laugh and reject me
Forget about them and never give up. Don't search for love, it's going to come eventually.
I had that thought process but now it just feels like I’ll be single forever
Focus on yourself and other things in life. I swear that you won't be forever single. Stay the person you are and never change for people. You have so much to see in life
I have done this and I still get friend zoned
Or any of these girls up front with you maybe you could talk to him and ask him why they put you in the friend zone maybe we can be informative for you
I think it’s cause I’m a real gentleman
I get friendzoned
Try with another one
And it will be the same result
You don't know... you can try tinder or an other dating app, it can take time but here you are sure to don't be friendzone
Well girls don’t respond
I will not do it for you... get yourself together
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Have done that
I am attractive
Do you treat women with respect?
Yeah I do cause I was raised right
How is that working?
Ok but I’m not gonna start treating women like dirt to date that’s some messed up psychology right there
That’s the thing I’m not gonna be known as the man who abuses women actually nots not a man at all
You don't have to abuse them
Calling them out of their name in a disrespectful manner is verbal abuse