Most Helpful Guy
If you haven't been together at least a year before the idea of marriage was brought up then you're going to fast. And it won't last. Yes its because you're a virgin
Most Helpful Girl
That depends on his views and values. The problem is you should have thought about this 3 days ago before you lost it. Now the real question is are you prepared for the consequences of premarital sex? Studies proven that those who were sexually active before marriage have an increase risk for divorce. You should have waited until marriage to have sex. Now your going to make the relationship about sex. And to me it sounds like he is more experienced than you. I say this whole thing is a mistake. He overall in my opinion is only interested in how he can have sex with you without worrying of you being with other men. This is a major mistake getting involved with him. He only wants sex from you. He is not interested in being truly serious with you. He only sees benefits for HIMSELF. NOT for you.