But when is the time right, because it wouldn't be smart to throw something like this at him during Christmas time. So I was thinking maybe between Christmas and new year. Is that wise? Just so he doesn't enter 2018 with false hope.
Concerning telling him. Should I simply tell why I'm disinterested, that I'm disinterested or throw it on not feeling anything romantically.
What would you guys like to hear in this situation?
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I think you're right to wait until after Christmas, but not too long thereafter. Tell him the truth, but as nicely as possible. He's probably completely unaware of how you feel.
Personally, the feedback as to why you weren't interested would be useful to me, and I'd prefer it to be as honest and comprehensive as possible so I can learn something from it (felt the same way when I was a young adult), but be prepared that he may be very hurt and not handle it well.1