My boyfriend refused to Sleep with me?

I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend since 4 years... he visits every year... I told him I was ready and I want to sleep with him.. but he refused I asked why? He said he can't do smth like that and then go back to his country... I don't know what to think? He often tells me when he doesn't think about sex often when he is in love but I'm his contrary.. sex is always on my mind even if I'm a girl.. i don't know what to think..

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  • He's obviously not into you. He visits "every year"? After four years of having a "relationship", you tell him you're ready? How can you even call this a relationship?

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  • He probably thinks it will be hard for him to leave after you've slept together. I bet it's already hard enough to be away from each other. Unfortunately I don't know how to help you it seems like something is going to have to change because at this point your boyfriend doesn't want to go further. And if a relationship stays at a certain point forever it's going to break.

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What Guys Said 6

  • I don't knw in which country u belong to...
    Like in my country it's a social stigma/taboo to have physical relationship B4 marriage.. same is d case in Islamic countries too and it's a punishable offence if people r involved in adultery. So may be ur boyfriend is worried about that...

    And if this isn't the case , then probably he isn't interested in complication Incase u if there is chance of pregnancy or he is compelled to marry u

    Or probably he isn't interested in you

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  • This doesn't sound like a fully functioning relationship. Some major holes to fill, if you forgive the expression

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  • Yes I can feel u more excited than ur boyfriend I have a huge penis

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  • Platonic love, maybe

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  • He has a real girlfriend back where he lives

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  • You are ready, so you assumed he was because he's a guy. This is quite simple, he's just not ready, just how you weren't...

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What Girls Said 1

  • He just has emotions and isn't a robot. He isn't emotionally able to be that intimate with you and then just leave. I think it is respectable.

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