I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend since 4 years... he visits every year... I told him I was ready and I want to sleep with him.. but he refused I asked why? He said he can't do smth like that and then go back to his country... I don't know what to think? He often tells me when he doesn't think about sex often when he is in love but I'm his contrary.. sex is always on my mind even if I'm a girl.. i don't know what to think..