Where is all this struggle that you guys are talking about. This question is open for everyone to answer.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you´re good-looking?
Most Helpful Guy
Because they haven't considered quitting altogether? Because they have not had their reality check yet? Because they haven't realized that they really don't have to nor need a relationship to exist and survive altogether. Because they are still trapped by their illusions or deluded to believe that once they have a girlfriend that they'll be forever "happy" and "fulfilled". If it's hard to get one, it's ALSO hard to keep one and maintain a relationship, the same goes for marriage. It's ALWAYS going to be an ongoing process with much responsibilities, way too many people do not recognize them as such and think it's just a one time and done deal, set it and forget it.