Transgender Activist: Men SHOULD Find Us Attractive and date us? Agree or Disagree?



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  • Disagree.

    Transgender activists are the reason for so much prejudice , because they are trying to take away other people's freedom of choice. Men have every right to turn down a transgender person.

    I wouldn't date a transgender. That's my prerogative. I feel no shame in admitting that. Transgender people need to accept and respect people's refusal not to date them.

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    • Exactly.
      I feel like it's never gonna stop with that... getting people fired and all sorts of things.

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  • No matter what, im not dating a guy.
    you're not a woman, you will never be a woman and you will never be accepted as a woman.

    You are accepted as a human and can do whatever the fuck you want, but your mental illness is not chaning my mind unless you can prove your biologically not a male.

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What Girls Said 16

  • when have any of us ever been able to FORCE another person to find us attractive? it doesn't work that way.

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  • I don’t think anyone HAS to be attracted to or date anyone. That’s just ridiculous. I do think there is still a stigma when it comes to dating transgender people but that doesn’t mean it’s accurate to say we HAVE to date them and be attracted to them.

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    • Dating is based on attraction in the first place... along side with personality and other things.

  • Oh, fucking Zinnia Jones. What a tool.

    I'm trans, ZJ does not speak for me.

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  • How ironic the person saying this is one of the most unattractive people I've ever seen. Just a thought.

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    • You mean the presenter?

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    • Yup... that's pretty much summed it up.
      And thanks to baby boomers generation for starting and creating these brats.

    • OMG, this comment made me LOL

  • HELL NO. They aren’t a real women. Some men want the real deal.

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  • If a man is comfortable with himself I see no reason that shouldn't date a transgender lady if he thinks she's pretty. Forcing someone, no.
    Sadly, I think too many men relate all transgender lady's to porn sites.

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  • Lol. Guys are just now coming to the realization women don't have naturally shimmery eyelids and winged eyeliner. People are attracted to with who they are attracted to. As long as it's not a minor or an animal, I am good.

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  • So much stupidity on both sides. 1 delusional person tweets and another tries to spin it to fit a political agenda. How can anyone watch his show? You can hear in every sentence what he's doing.
    And that woman, delusional af. If I don't want to date a guy who was once a woman, that's because 1) most times you can tell because they are still feminine in more ways than a man/not built like a guy and 2) lol nah, I'm ok. I want a functioning penis in my life.

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  • Yeah... things don't really work that way.
    Same as why girls ask why do men dislike fake boobs. Cause they're fake. So is fake vagina.

    I mean, your lifestyle is your choice, it doesn't hurt me in any way, therefore I have nothing against it. But I'd never date a transgender because I don't find them attractive, and the whole thought of changing your gender is mildly scary to my.

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  • No one should have to like any one. Be a likeable person and the feelings will follow. You can't demand someone to like you cuz then they never will

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  • Disagree. You don´t have to date a mental illness.

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    • glad to see i'm not alone on this one.
      funny thing is that their main "argument" is: brain is wired differently.
      And they are correct. their brain is wired differently and they see themselves as something they are not. yet others (though sane, but with lots of free time) decided to take them seriously

    • got my vote on the comment.

    • They need to get treated not supported for their mental illness.. It's like supporting anorexia nervosa.

  • Strongly disagree

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  • OVER REACHING is an understatement with this for sure. Attraction to whomever you are attracted to, goes way beyond just telling someone you "should" date this person. Just look at arranged marriages where couples are forced to be together---simply plopping someone down in front of you and saying, go, have at it, doesn't really work out for the good majority because there was no personal choice or attraction involved in it, the later which can not be faked.

    For anyone of any sex, gender, whatever qualifier to stand up on a podium and say, you should date me, is an ego trip and a half. The stipulation here is that one should date a trans person SIMPLY because they are trans, which I would think is rather ironic because I've never wanted anyone to date me simply because of one quality because I'm so much more than just one thing. This activist person is clearly a reductionists who doesn't actually see value in all that makes up a human being---just that, in this case, men, should be forced to date people because that's what she'd want? Should we in the reverse, forcer her to date women, you know just to be fair?

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  • No.

    Just because you change your body does not mean you are suddenly a woman. Mens brains and women's brains are hard wired differently, meaning perception and thought processes are still masculine.

    Thats why men are leery of trans because they can sense the maleness still there.

    Hence, they can't just "like trans," because there is so much more going on behind the dress and heels

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  • I get the point, and the point is to be seen as just regular folx. That's not wrong to want.

    But at the same time, you can't control what other people find sexually exciting or not.

    Maybe at some point more average dudes will dig on trans folx, but that's probably going to take several more decades of general trans acceptance.

    Guess what, not every dude digs my body either. I can live with that, so long as they can mind their manners and not be cruel or insulting.

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    • Average straight dudes will never date transgenders.
      they wouldn't be straight in the first place.

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    • And what did I say about that demand? I dissected it, gave it some context, but said it's not something someone else can control. Don't you agree it's not something someone else can control in you?

    • The question is very simple !
      Why you are changing the subject woman?
      If its in control or not... your attraction defines if you are straight, gay or bi.

  • For all a certain group of women love to shout about how "women don't need men" etc etc, they sure do put a lot of value in the opinion and approval of men.

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    • Haha, yep!
      And also, add the fact that they sound entitled to sex and relationships.

What Guys Said 41

  • ill never get those 2 minutes back. Never.

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  • Hahaha! Stop getting your "news" from Fox. It's all bullshit.
    They do that to perpetuate the ridiculous myth that minority groups are taking over the whole world. They're MINORITY groups for a reason. They're lucky to not be beaten to death in the streets on any given day, they're not going to take over the government and start making everyone live like they do under the threat of military force. Grow up.

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  • www.court-records.net/.../bratworth-aha(d).gif

    "Should"? Hard to say. I reckon a lot of people would agree with the idea that a straight guy "should" find women attractive in general, but I also think many said people would agree that you can't really pinpoint which women specifically he that he "should" find attractive.

    That being said, if there are straight men who actually accept transgenders as they are (they agree that transgenders are indeed the gender that they believe they are) then the transgenders "should" be included in the set of women that they "should" attracted to in general.

    The problem with what they are saying is that she is presupposing so many things that many people (and also people responding in this question) don't actually believe in the first place.

    Is "she" actually a woman?
    Is "she" actually sexually attractive?
    Is "she" entitled to dates?

    So many questions which need to be a certain answer for her argument to stand.

    www.court-records.net/.../bratworth-shrug(d).gif

    With all that said, she is just bitter that the people she wants to date don't want to date her back.

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  • Zinnia Jones is cool, I've been following her for years, she's not the psycho that FOX, for fuck sake, shockingly implies she is.

    My interpretation of this isn't forcing people to find someone attractive, the whole point is that how a person is assigned at birth, if they've had gender confirmation surgery or whatever, they are essentially that sex, it's not "a man who's had surgery," it's someone who was assigned male at birth, has received hormones and surgery, and is more often than not at that stage indistinguishable as post-op. That's assuming of course that the trans person undergoes surgery or treatment at all.

    The point is, people are grossed out by trans people. It's the ick factor. It's not about "I demand you find me sexy," it's "I have a right to be treated as human." I've watched gender confirmation surgery, it's not even a fake vagina, it's fucking miraculous what they can do now, all the nerve endings and shit are there. I don't think they can get pregnant but the nerve endings are there, it's the right shape, it looks the same. Hormones give them natural breasts, vocal cord surgery can give them an appropriate voice, and voice coaching. They are women in a woman's body, so "ick factor" aside, there's no reason for a straight man to discriminate.

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  • I'll never date a Transgender and you can't force me to change my mind on that.

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  • No were not bigots. Its the whole thing that you used to be a dude. also. if you got a dick. your a dude. no ifs ands or butts about it. idc if you associate as a female. you got a dick. your a dude. Also its to each their own. you can't force someone to love you. unless they get Stockholm syndrome

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  • Transgenderism is a mental disorder. I feel sorry for the people who suffer from it, but this has gone to far. If they want to fuck around with their non binary friends, that's all right, but pushing their agenda on society through playing the victim card to gain political favors is just completely mad.

    If you have a dick, you go to the men's showers and toilets, if you have a vagina you go to women's showers & toilets.

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  • just the statement alone is an indication that those are mentally ill people. they can do whatever they want and butcher their bodies and play pretend but they are not real women and never will be. besides, why would you force your shit on others?

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  • I feel like Tucker Carlson is just a conservative douchebag whose only talent is making people on the left who are obviously insane look bad next to him so he seems less intolerable.

    Obviously this is wrong & people should be allowed to express and feel attraction to who they want to, but literally this whole story was just one bitch on twitter going 'straight men need to work on their not wanting to fuck me'. That was it. This isn't journalism nor is it a serious, pervasive issue.

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  • These liberal activists lost their mind completely. Their mental illness reached a new all time high. The fact is you can't force anyone to love you. Love must be earned, that's how it works. People also has the right to don't like you, it's their privilege.

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  • No. I don't agree. But this news actor guy, the wealthy trust fund baby heir of the Swanson food dynasty, Tucker Carlson's handlers give air time to these silly people to rile up the right wing. They choose to put that circus on the air to make a point, to turn people away from real problems and instead throw their social frustrations on the LGBT movement. Propaganda that you shouldn't pay attention to.

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  • So what happens when you start dating a trans woman and you don't know it. And you fall in love with her and get so emotionally attached to her. Then one day she tells you "I'm a biological man". What happens then. You just automatically end it with her? Forget and disregard your feelings?

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    • There are several signs to know if she is a transgender or not. that's if she didn't mention it in the beginning to ask me to call her whatever name she wanted to be called.
      And since I'm straight... yes. I don't have any interest in that.

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    • Wow, you must think you're so cool. 25 and you know everything. I bet you're pretty proud of yourself. Keep it up. You might just actually learn something in the process.

    • What? why you are triggered in the first place?
      you need to take a nap.

  • they can if they want but to use the word 'should' is to suggest we are not allowed to have personal preferences

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  • More stupid postmodernist nihilism. They think they can demand that the universe it's self change to suit them.

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  • This is why we need to start culling the weak and the runts

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  • I'm gonna go against the grain and say I understand the point she is making, that said I don't know enough about transgender-ism to share an informed opinion.

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  • Attractiveness is a personal opinion, you can't force that on someone.

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  • When it comes to who we want to have sex with, people are free to use any standards we want. People can discriminate based on sex, age, religion, or any other reason when it comes to who we allow near our genitals. They aren't going to succeed in shaming people into having sex with trans people.

    In fact I believe that trying to pressure someone into having sex with you, actually counts as a form of rape now in some places. So these trans people need to be careful where they use shame tactis to try and get people to sleep with them.

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  • She can suck a shoe, I won't date anyone I don't want to because I could be seen as... As what, by the way? Homophobic? Transphobic?

    Yes, sorry I don't date males, even if they had their dicks cut.

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  • Forget ALL transgender people who thinks this BS! Forget wasn't my initial word of choice. Those confused people should stay in their lane and date their own kind unless a straight man willingly wants to date another man who think he's a woman.

    Men dating men is disgusting!

    Why did they allow that man to talk on live tv anyway?

    It seems like everyone is pushing the gay agenda... Depopulation tactic by the illuminati.

    This world is very sick.

    There's nothing more beautiful than a real natural born man and woman being together in regards to this topic.

    I have nothing against gay people or them other ones. You like who you like but don't target straight men who ain't with the fuck shit.

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