- Emotionally unavailable
- Not into me
- Too early to tell
- Neither - I'm expecting too much from him
Most Helpful Guy
The fact that he has asked you to go away on a trip with him before you have met the first time very strongly suggests to me that he is socially inept. I suspect that he has very little experience in relationships and has probably built this u p in his head into something much bigger than it actually is. If my theory is correct, he may be very grateful and devoted if you become a couple but he will need some "training" and that may be more than you are willing to do.
Most Helpful Girl
I’d pull away a bit and leave it to him. If he doesn’t step up and make an effort. Move on