Is he emotionally unavailable or just not into me?

The fact that he has asked you to go away on a trip with him before you have met the first time very strongly suggests to me that he is socially inept. I suspect that he has very little experience in relationships and has probably built this u p in his head into something much bigger than it actually is. If my theory is correct, he may be very grateful and devoted if you become a couple but he will need some "training" and that may be more than you are willing to do.
Thanks for your input. I've gone on dates with a guy who was a bit similar to this guy (asked me to go on a trip to Europe with him). Of course, I declined but he planned 2 other dates straight away. So I think I might give this new guy a pass.
You should go and meet him. But, on your terms. Pick a place of your choice where you feel comfortable and safe. Don't think or expect much out of him. Best of luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.
I’d pull away a bit and leave it to him. If he doesn’t step up and make an effort. Move on
Yup, I've lost a lot of interest already. I don't want to push or ask him for the location of our date next Thursday so I'll just wait. If I don't hear from him by next Tuesday, I'll just cancel the date and make other plans. Thanks for your input.
I feel like he thinks this is rushed so he wants to take it slow!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He probably is socially inept and the turning down three times certainly didn't help him. He probably thinks this is more serious than you do and is nervous that you won't like him.
He is beating around the bush way too much. Do not take this guy seriously.
Yup, that's exactly how I feel. I would like to give him the benefit of the doubt but at this point I've lost interest.
A lot of guys dont like planning. They prefer to leave it to the girl so they know for certain she is having fun.
Be careful. I wouldn’t meet him anywhere but a very public place until you got to know him. Make him do the work, sounds like he’s playing you
At least he could have suggested two places so that you can think about it. Ask him where
Hehe guys r poor at planning so girls do it its common so try him
Too early to tell
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