How do I portray to guys that I am wife material without coming across as just one of the guys?

I am a huge sports fan. I am the kind of girl who is willing to stay in watching the game and drinking beer; but is also willing to get dressed up in a dress and heels and go out on the town. I want to be a sports agent and I am currently in university.

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  • It's great and totally cool that you love sports and want to be a sports agent. But just remember to cultivate your feminine, maternal side (which I'm sure you do) so that you'll be seen by guys as a possible future wife and mother. For example, I'm sure most of the sidelines sports babes you see on football telecasts have husbands and probably children. I'm sure when they're not analyzing pass routes and interviewing football players about that great touchdown catch they have a very maternal, feminine side to them.

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  • What is your age?
    Some people do want to get married soon. A guy will like you for who you are regardless of the fact that you like watching games, drinking beer and also are feminine... :)
    What exactly do you mean by wife material?

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    • I am 19.

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    • Are you Asian?

    • I don’t want to get married yet. I’m just trying to get across that I’m not only one of the guys but I can also be datable.

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What Guys Said 20

  • I don't think you should "portray" anything. I think you should be you and the right guy will love you for that. And personally from what you described I think the way you are is going to look more like "wife material" than someone who's out clubbing all the time and hanging out of her dress and trying to attract guys purely based on sex. You sound like a well rounded person with varying interests and skills and I'm pretty sure the right guy will find that very appealing.

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  • The key to marketing yourself as wife material is going to lie in your ability to prepare for game night. I would think at least... If I am an avid sports fan, and so is my girlfriend, I am going to want her to be able to make great game day food. Maybe even plan a party really well. I have this belief that everybody, every girl especially, ought to be able to make anywhere from 3-6 things REALLY WELL.

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  • I wouldn’t worry about anyone’s ability to see you as “wife material” because you know you are, and that is good enough right? That’s for you to know and for guys to discover. That is the attitude that will best serve you

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  • The things you said is not a wife material thing. A wife material thing is how you love him, how you care about him, how much you teach him, how you always stays calm even after he is shouting on you , and there are many more.

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  • Really don't see how liking sports and beer makes you wifey material. It just increases your chances that you have similar interests with most guys. Wifey material is more about the personality traits of a person.

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  • To me, a girl who is "Just one of the guys" is not wife material like not at all. I want a feminine girl

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  • Those are 2 very different roles in my life, so I don't think you'll have any problems with guys mixing up your intent. Unless your intent in marriage is to be completely platonic, or nonsexual.

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  • I would say to just do all the traditional wife stuff cooking cleaning taking care of your man that way he understands that you have the ability to be the wife, but at the same time you can hang out with him

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  • To the guys who WANT a wife, *almost* every girl is wife material. To the guys who DON'T want a wife, none of them are.

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  • I don't know on which part of the globe u live in buy usually in Asian countries wife material means someone who can be a good mother, keep the home peaceful yet charming & last but not least is that she behaves properly to her in law's.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Not sure how the attributes you describe make you "wife material"?
    You are just a unique individual who happens to like sports and drinking beer.

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  • Don't be a "pick me".

    Anyway, it's good you like those things. It just means you may have more in common with guys. That doesn't automatically make you wife material. It's how you treat your partner, communication, etc. Not just interests.

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