He won’t even kiss me anymore. If he does it’s just on the cheek
How long have you had this relationship?
A year and a half
Maybe the honeymoon effect has worn off for him. If you aren't getting physical contact or intimacy anymore he is probably doing that with someone else. You might as well cut your losses and find someone new and better. Stuff like that doesn't change back to how it was.
Yeah and tonight he tried to have sex with me but he would only kiss my cheek so I stopped it and left because like, he was paying no attention to me whatsoever. Even though he initiated the sex. Like at least make out with me and feel me up a bit.
The passion is gone. It's very common. What about the rest of the relationship? If there is only sex left and even that is gone it's just as bad as "ghosting" . Hate that term.
It depends now. Some days are great some are not so great. Like he says he loves me and wants to marry me- but he never says I love you unless I do... and I don't know why
Sounds like a chore for him. Maybe he has bad days at work as well?
I know he gets stressed out at work which is fine but like- he won’t say I love you unless I say it first which hurts sometimes. My birthday is tomorrow and he says he’s got something big planned but I’m not expecting too much... I kinda feel like he’s just going to cancel if bc he’s too tiered.
You may have to wait and see.
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Hiding his phone, being distant, always on his phone, constantly talking about another girl to me, hardly looks at me anymore, doesn’t want sex
If he's hiding his phone, he is being shady. Find the phone, unlock it, discover the truth
He grabs it from me everytime I have it in my hands. This morning I tried to take a photo of me ( cause he never does ) and he grabbed it from me right away.