Can women get flustered by men approaching and conversing with them?
What Girls Said 2
I approach all the time, and if it makes you feel any better, I get that reaction from both sexes. Lol, I'm just like you except I'll awkwardly end the conversation and go cry in a corner, wondering what I did wrong. Even just making friends with girls, they can be really stranger shy. So confusing 0_ o
The pretty girls are especially insecure because people are always drawing attention to their looks. When something goes wrong, they feel their looks are partially to blame, or just themselves period. They fear if they're not gorgeous all the time (smudged eyeliner), or say the perfect thing, that deep down people are going to hate them. All that fear means they never take risks, would never initiate convo, or express themselves freely for fear of judgment. I struggled with this too, until I realized that being super dolled up and expecting everyone else to do the footwork when it came to socializing wasn't getting me anywhere.
When a freeze up girl like that meets someone who is totally comfortable with themselves, meeting them eye-to-eye, expecting something real and not just predictably gushing over the way they look -- its unexpected. It catches them off guard. They're prob the type that doesn't have much interesting input, and prefer to be in a group/clique. It's safer, less risky. They'd prob need to be in an environment that's less risky, like at home, or around close family, and literally be spoonfed new friends. They expect friends with no risk, effort, or sacrifices. Not surprisingly they're the same girls that never text me back. Pisses me off!!
I promise you they don't realize they have a doe-eyed look. No, it's not you. You're not creepy. And no, you're not going to be able to change them. End it casually and move on. That same girl when you meet her again, might be less antsy but trust me, it's way too much work.
As long as your approach is respectful, not overly focused on her looks, asking polite questions, there's no way an outgoing girl with HEALTHY self-esteem would think you're creepy. Even if I reject a guy, I often compliment him for his respectful approach because it's so rare nowadays. Check out my comment that reflects a similar annoyance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6zjZBiMs74
Yeah women get like that you are not creepy lol
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