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How long have you been dating? Are you already exclusive?
No we don't. We just date, but we take it slowly
New Year's Eve is not a typical occasion for gift giving. She may think that there is some special significance fr you giving her a gift. Is there some special motivation for wanting to give her a gift now?
I just feel like it, since I haven't given her sth for Christmas
Did she give you anything for Christmas?
No, we didn't exchange gifts
If you now give her a belated Christmas gift, perhaps she will feel badly that she didn't get you a gift. Maybe you should consider simply purchasing something that the two of you could enjoy together, like a couples massage. (And if you are at the point where a couples massage might feel awkward, you could choose some other activity that you would enjoy together.)
Sounds good idea. However, I saw the earrings and thought, this is for her. Do you think that a gift us a good idea showing that I care or could possibly backfire to me?
A gift will catch her off guard and she may feel guilty about not having anything for you. It would be better to wait until Valentine's Day (unless you have a dating anniversary sooner.) Are you uncertain of the extent of her feelings for you?
Kinda. We are not a couple. I let her know of how I feel about her, but she wants to take it slow. I don't want to scare her away, just to make her happy
Then you should definitely hold off on giving her a gift. Many women would interpret a gift as you being desperate and trying to buy her affections. However, it would be appropriate on Valentine's Day, as long as it is not over the top.
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