Was that a positive or negative experience for you?
Since you said she was “phenomenal” it made me think you added some positivity to it
Negative in the sense when she turned on me she was by far the most evil of breakups. Phenomenal referring only to the sex. She had little to no feelings so the sex was full throttle and just completely uninhibited by any emotions. She had orgasms unmatched to any other gfs the details of which some find difficult to believe-extreme
Yep. And I’m not foolproof even though sometimes I’d like to think I am. At the end of the day I know that a sociopath who is smarter than me can also deceive me. So I’m trying to see how they act etc.
Can you describe some of their behaviors or tendencies?
They're smart and they know a lot. They can fake interest in you and your interests with ease so you think you're connecting on a deep level. They can charm you into submission and yeah, they're smarter than you. They know how to hide it.The difference between a sociopath and a psychopath is a deeply developed understanding of consequences. They know exactly what they can get away with and how to do so.A psychopath doesn't care about the consequences which is why they'll go on a murdering rampage. A sociopath knows the consequences aren't worth the effort. But that's about the only difference.So basically a sociopath will do whatever they know they can get away with. They will scar you emotionally without giving a crap about your feelings because they know that there's no law against it.They truly have no empathy.
What are some of the things he did? Can you describe his behavior?
He has amazing people skills, so unless you really know him, you don’t know what he’s capable of. He knows how to manipulate others and what lies to tell to keep you around so he can continue to use you to get what he wants. Very unreliable, too. Takes what he wants, leaves you when he’s done, and then comes back when he wants something else. He then overcompensates for a while to keep you around, but eventually he goes back to his selfish ways. By that time though, you’re already hooked. It’s part of why people stay with abusive partners and later defend them. They think that they’ll change, and they’re convinced that they need them to be happy.
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Sociopath.a sociopath is a person with a personality disorder manifesting itself in extreme antisocial attitudes and behavior and a lack of conscience (Google). They also lack empathy toward others, and tend to seek satisfaction by using others without caring for them.Is this something that you can familiarize yourself with?
Yeah, but I question that definition as that starts to bleed into the definition of psychopath with the lack of empathy and lack of conscience. I also don't use others, using others is for the weak, so is lying. I have my own moral code I adhere to, my conscience is based off that. It basically says:1. Stand by what you believe in2. Don't lie3. Don't mooch4. Mind your own damn business, and I'll mind mine5. Stand on your own damn feet, don't be dead weight6. Help those who help themselves, don't enable lazy7. Stand by those who stand by you
To me you sound more like a rational, independent person rather than a sociopath.Thanks for sharing tho.
Perhaps you're right, as I do have a moral code.Well actually there was this one girl I knew, she was definitely a sociopath if we're talking that definition. She didn't give a rats ass about laws, health, or anyone around her. She'd use you and throw you away like trash, not even give it a second thought. She was, arguably one of worst people I ever met. Even I thought she was a piece of shit, and I literally told her that too. Funny enough, her little friends showed up at my work the next day. I'm a big dude, I'm 6'4, her friends were half my size. All I thought was "Wow, she must have thrown her friends in the meat grinder just to get revenge." Well soon as they saw me they went the other way, still it bothers me how disposable they were to her. She moved to China about a month later, she's still there I hear.
Wow that sucks. I don’t like people like that at all. They’re toxic
Why are you so interested in sociopaths anyway?
I was talking to a friend who recently went through a break up, and she’s been telling how he was a sociopath etc...Just curious about how many others have gone through this
Also it’d be nice to hear people’s stories so I could know how to spot one better
Going with what @alllowtimes said, I agree 100% about how sociopaths say what you want to hear, just to keep you around, so they can throw you away when they get what they want. She was decently popular, you'd never expect at face value she was anything but a kind, fun, open minded girl. But if you got to know her, you'd realize her heart is blacker than Satan's. The only reason she was "open minded" was to learn more of your weaknesses so she could exploit them for her own gain.