Why Do Girls Lead On?
What Girls Said 4
As shitty as this sounds, she is using you as a back up! This has nothing to do with women. Men lead women on all the time as well. It is a personality trait. Take this as a sign of how she is truly and move on. No point in being with someone who treats you as a option!
She is either dating someone already,
She is paranoid about emotions, relationships etc,
She isn't over her ex,
She is confused about her feelings
don't hold on into her, if she wants it she will go and get it if not then let her go. Same about the date thingy, don't ask her again let her ask you if she's interested. Maybe you're trying too hard.
I don't know why she'd lead the date plan on because you've been on one together already, she should be open to another (unless she doesn't like you, but she wouldn't have messaged you again if she didn't like you). It could just be she's still going through whatever it is she's dealing with. I'd recommend just asking straight out, "Why do you not want to go on another date?" or just keep trying to make plans and if she continues to do whatever she's doing question her then. I'm as puzzled as you hahaha. Sorry for the lack of help, this girl has me stumped. The most you can do is continue chatting and then wait until she hints a date or find a time for you to mention it again. Even ask if she wants to hang out soon, and if she says yes, suggest a day. Once you're on the topic and planning one, it's gonna be hard for her to get around it so she'll ultimately have to make it happen. If she declines, don't take it too hard, keep talking and ask in a couple weeks or something (if you want). She may just want to wait. If all else fails, and she continues like this, drop her. You deserve better.
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