Most Helpful Guy
Everyone is different. I've always liked a bit of flesh and not scrawny... Is your weight so out of control it may be of health risks to you?
I've been with women who are just so unhealthy it is actually too stressful to be with them.
Most Helpful Girl
Although I’m not a man but as a lesbian, I would say yes I care about weight. To a certain extent, I am overweight myself. But on a girl I see more of personality than of there figure.
As for the weight, if they are underweight I would be seriously worried not that I wouldn’t date them but would help aid to make them healthier same as if the person was extremely overweight I’d help them feel better about themselves. But if a person is happy with the way they are then so be it.
(Unless they are putting themselves at risk like all eating disorders and uncontrolled diabetes and other conditions)