If men ask me why I have low self-esteem, does that mean I’m am okay in looks?

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I grew up being very ugly and fat, and I still have the same mentality. I don’t allow myself to date for my own insecurities even though I get asked out. I usually make lies and say I’m busy or broke.

But I finally started telling men I talk to that I don’t like my body or my looks and they tell me my self-esteem is too low. Does that mean I’m decent looking? Am I just too over-worried for nothing?
If men ask me why I have low self-esteem, does that mean I’m am okay in looks?
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