Please be specific and have real answer , no dumb I will block you or report your answer.
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Ok, so, you can't stand a dumb answer, but you ask a... ok, nevermind. I'll just try to answer you.
1. No. Women in the military do not all have fuck buddies. Anytime anyone ever tells you "women of ___________________ (group) do all the same thing", they are wrong. Do you get that? I heard all people named Ahmadoz have green hair and 14 eyeballs. Am I RIGHT about ALL guys called Ahmadoz? NO. Of course I'm not right. Because YOU don't have green hair an 14 eyeballs. Well, a statement like all Army women have fuck buddies is the same dumbshit kind of statement. Of course not all Army women have fuck buddies. Women in a group do not do all the same thing.
2. Talk to the woman. Ask her questions about her sex life. Ask her if she IS monogamous or wants to be monogamous. Don't sit around worrying about it. Be a man and just get the information you need. Don't be a pig about it. Go out with her a couple of times. Don't either of you drink too much and ask questions like (I'm going to make-up a name for here) "Cindy, I really like you. I want to keep seeing you and I want to know more about you and see if we want the same things." Then you just talk about it. Not like an accusing asshole who is interrogating her about if she's slutty. Like a guy who respects her choice to have whatever kind of sex she has, you just want to know, so you can see if your values match up. "Cindy, I am a one-woman kind of man, and if we decide to keep going out, I want it to be just you and me. Are you seeing anyone else right now? How do you feel about being monogamous with me?"
Most women ARE monogamous, so she's probably going to say "yes" and then you move on.
3. You should not be going into a relationship as an adult person without having a full panel of STD tests done on your own self. And then, when you think you might have a new partner you say "I had my STD tests done 6 weeks ago. Here's the paperwork. I haven't had sex with anyone else. Can you show me yours? I think it's important that adult people get STD tests, I hope you do too."
She says "fuck off you asshole" and you say, "that's fine. I just like to be safe and do the right thing, goodbye."
OR she says
"You're right. Thanks for looking out for my health. I'll have mine done and show you."
Then you see her results, realize she doesn't have HIV, and THEN, you absolutely do not stick your penis in her without a condom on. You don't EVER have sex with a woman ever without a condom until...1