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I think some of them do.
I do it all the time. I had a first date for New Years Eve with a high school classmate and she postponed it because she has pneumonia. Tomorrow, I will send her flowers. Our first date will be dinner at an upscale restaurant, a symphony concert, and drinks afterwards.
I think some of them do.
Why should he spend a lot of money on you? Do you spend a lot of money on him? It goes both ways, women aren't the only ones who like all those nice things, so why should the man be the one to pay for it? Men and women should pay 50-50, that's how relationships are supposed to work. You're an adult, if you want that stuff, pay for it yourself, men are not your personal ATM machine. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but it's reality.
Yes I do. But only if my Sense tells me that she isn't primarily with me because of that. Trust me I notice, I can literally SMELL a golddigger when she's 100 miles away. Thats why I usually won't tell my last name. Because my family Name is well known in my City.
Well I have a problem with it if its EXPECTED of me to shell out my hard earned cash for her vanity. However if she likes me for who I am, rather than what i buy for her, I would love to spend money on her. She deserves to be shown how important she is to me. But money also doesn't necessarily do that. I won't be overly stingy or anything on a date but im not about to have a serious relationship based on showering her with money
I used to, but ultimately I had to acknowledge that deep down I was trying to buy her affection. I had to realize that even if my girlfriend didn't buy me stuff, that I would still like her for her. So now I demand that a woman like me for me. If she doesn't actually like me for me, and just wants me to waste my money on her, then she can go find another sucker for that.
You keep insisting you're not a gold digger, so I want to pose a serious question to you. Don't answer, just really think about it. Why do you insist on him spoiling you with money and material possessions, rather than wanting him to spoil you with his time and attention? Time is where the real value is, time is something that a man can never get back. A guy who gives his woman money doesn't actually value her, that's the lazy way of doing things. A man who gives his woman his time, that's the guy who actually values you. Just something to think about.
Not a fairytale... I enjoy doing that for my girlfriend, when I have one anyway. been single 6 months now, taking a break from dating
yeah.. sometimes xD.. she is mygf. she is responsible from me
many guys do it.
I haven't any girlfriend. but I have female friends. I spend money on them
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