Anyway, I just downloaded POF and one amazingly attractive girl apparently "viewed my profile" which is a feature you have on there, and for some reason it won't let me message her. Since I first made my profile a while ago but never went on it I can't lie about my age, and apparently I can't message her since I'm 22 and not 21 (she only allows people between 18 and 21 to message her which is just a classic). Of course she's beautiful and only lives 15 minutes away, just my luck. Maybe I'll make another profile just to message her for the hell of it. Who knows. All I know is after this I'm focusing on making as much money as possible so that when I'm in my 40s I'll have enough money saved up to go on trips I've always dreamed of (Pebble Beach in California, TPC Sawgrass, Ireland, etc). Dating is NOT my thing as much as I want to vibe with someone I find beautiful.
Most Helpful Girl
I could be totally wrong, but you seem more like a relationship man than a hook up man (which is perfectly fine by the way). Most women that age don’t want a relationship as they just want to have their fun. You will realize as you do get a little older that women will appreciate you more for you and will be potential partners compared to now. Just focus on your masters (congrats), your career and the right one will come along!
Most Helpful Guy
"So I'm 22.5 years old, finishing my Master's in May"
Good job. This will help you A LOT in the future (like 27+) when it comes to dating. You're not cursed at all. You're just dating in the worst possible age bracket where women are considered their most attractive and think highly of themselves. At your age, most women think they can get almost any man they want - because in some ways it's true. Past 25/26 this dynamic shifts A LOT (at least in my experience). As an example, I'm 27 with a masters degree and 4 different Tinder/CMB women have messaged me tonight so far - and we're talking solid 8s and a 10. I would just wait if I were you - your time will come.
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