Is expecting to become friends before getting serious that unusual?
What Guys Said 3
Holy shit women can't make up their damn minds!
"OMG this guy only became my friend because he wants to sleep with me!"
"We want guys to be our friends before trying to have a sexual relationship with us"
If you insist on arbitrarily dragging the process out for longer than necessary, don't be surprised if he leaves for somebody else who isn't playing the fucking games.
I can see nothing sides of this. But one ain't no good without the other. But friendship should come first.
We're not against it. But if our goal was to date and get downgraded to friend, it's pretty demoralizing. Makes us question if putting in the effort is worth while.
Personally, I prefer to date first and be friends later. It doesn't mean she has to sleep with me before I become her friend. It just means that I need to explore our romantic possibilities before settling for a friendship. And I'm this way because its usually harder to transition from friendship to dating (AKA the friend-zone) than it is to transition from a dating to friendship.
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