The only thing I'm concerned about is if he came back because the sex is good or if he actually likes me because of the effort he puts in. I want to be able to just enjoy what we have now, but its on the back of my mind constantly and is always nagging me. Should I ask him if we are exclusive? Or does it seem like maybe he just came back for the sex?
Most Helpful Guy
The way to figure out whether a man is just using you for sex or not, is as follows. If all you have to offer is sex and he is with you, then he's using you for sex.
If you bring a lot to the table, are really interesting, have spent many years of your life developing depth, personality, wit, and people can learn a lot just from talking to you, then he's with you because you are interesting, have a great personality, have depth, and are attractive.
However, those that are the latter, are unlikely to ask such a question in the first place...
Most Helpful Girl
I think he came back because you're willing to give him sex.
Dinner and presents mean nothing.
Does he treat you right?
Does he stay in touch with you everyday?
Has he mentioned you in his future?
Does he introduce you to his family and friends?