Don’t know why I’m this way?

So I’m a Virgin, due to growing up and hearing to wait till I got married. I’ve had several of my fam and friends say that I’m stupid for not going out and gaining some experience. They have been telling me this since I have gotten older (yet growing up I would hear the other way especially in church). I’m on the fence right now, because a big part of me doesn’t want to go down that road, because of what I learned when I was younger. Then on the other hand I don’t want to have any regrets. Another thing that I catch flack for is talking/dating one girl at a time, instead of playing th field. I have no idea of what to do.
Don’t know why I’m this way?
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