-I'm awkward around girls
-I'm inexperienced and it holds me back
-I've put up a wall (emotionally) for most people
-I don't party (kind of by choice)
-When I do get close with a girl I screw it hope somehow (probably trying to talk to her too much)
-I don't approach girls
-I need to have to a girl text me first to show that she is interested in me, otherwise, I don't think she is
How do I help myself in this area in my life?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't need a girlfriend just to have one, everyone gets lonely don't feel pressure to be in a relationship. Sounds like you need to focus on yourself to get to a better state of mind. Once you feel better about yourself things will be easier getting to where you want to be. Good luck dude
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Most Helpful Guy
Just keep at it. Don't over think stuff. Don't try to hard to please someone else at first. Just keep being you. Don't get caught up thinking "I wonder if I say this or do this will she will like me?". Instead you should just be yourself and if it's not a match than that's a good thing. You don't have to party but you do need to mingle.
I'll leave you with this. Sometime failure is the best educator. It just depends on whether or not you pay attention.