Okay sorry means your remorseful and you dont repeat the same action?

My boyfriend says sorry all the time then he does the same thing right after, so im curious from everyones point of view, maybe he will read and get it, oh and one more detail he's 32 years old...
  • Sorry doesn't mean you have to change
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  • A real apology is followed with changing the behavior
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  • Im wasting my time trying to show a 32 year old man that saying sorry and repeating the action for 5 years is wrong
    Vote C
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  • If you're genuinely sorry it means you understood what you did was not cool, you are remorseful because you understand how much you hurt the one you love. You don't bring up excuses or say your actions are justified. You apologize sincerely and from the heart.

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What Guys Said 2

  • A verbal apology is just a promise to repeat what you did. A sincere apology is not spoken, it's done through behavioral change.

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  • An actual sincere apology would be to never do that again.

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What Girls Said 9

  • It's both B and C. Maybe he has a problem that he needs to fix and needs professional help in. Otherwise, if he is not getting help, then he is not as sincere. And you shouldn't be tolerating it. A person can't change overnight, no. Unless it's through God. But if he doesn't make the effort to change, then it's not genuine. You don't want to continue to be in such a toxic relationship. It should have been over once it became more than 3 times.

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  • Saying sorry is meaningless if someone keeps repeating the same thing they are sorry for. Like they say
    " actions speak louder than words"
    Words are meaningless if someone's actions don't harmonize with their words. Changing his behaviour would prove his apology is sincere

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  • people often say things they dont really mean or what you like to hear
    or they believe it but what they say is not really true
    someone can say they love you but their actions will prove it
    someone can say sorry but if they act the same without even effort to change then they are not really sorry

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  • If he keeps doing it then he doesn’t mean it. Talk is cheap... actions speak louder than words. Maybe don’t be so forgiving until he actually does something about it.

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  • A real apology is followed with changing the behavior

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  • C
    had sister like that
    do what she wants
    then
    wash it all away with
    sorry sorry sorry

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  • It sounds like 'sorry' is something that he doesn't really mean. Sorry is an apology, but it does not mean, that he feels remorse for his behaviour.

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  • It definitely does seem like a waste of time but obviously that only based on the context I have here

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  • A sorry meens that he will change the behavior or at least try hard. Not really sure what the issue is, but maybe he needs counselling. He is apologising because he realizes he did something wrong but then repeats the same behavior again and again. He may need professional help. Good luck to you both

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