When I came back from working abroad, I found out he had been messaging a few other girls. Nothing too horrific but pretty damn flirty. I confronted him about it as it did upset me. When I came back from working abroad again, he had been messaging other girls with similar messages.
He also recently lied to me about going clubbing with his friends, he told me he went straight home after a boys rugby day when it turns out he went to a club after and point blank lied about it.
I just really dont know what to do as he keeps saying he will earn back my trust and every time I start to feel secure again, it gets broken.
Most Helpful Guy
If there is no trust, there will always be issues. While the lie about going clubbing seems innocuous he would not have said that if he didn't feel he has something to hide. You may have affected that by questioning him but I don't expect the issue to resolve on it's own.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
once a liar always a liar, accept it or dump him0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE