What does a guy mean when he asks you to hang out?

Last night, he texted me "Happy New Year (my name here)" and I told him happy new year, and a few minuets later he said, " Do you want to hang out and catch up sometime? Cuz I haven't seen you in forever" I said sure and told him to let me know when he's free, and he said he'd get back to me.

He's shown signs of a crush on me before... but after three years, I figured he's just a flirty guy.

Is he asking me out, or does he just want to hang?
Okay... he just sent me a text. He wants to know if I want to get together for lunch tomorrow. Date or hang out?


Most Helpful Guy

Most Helpful Girl

  • That depends on the guy. I've had guys ask to hang out with me when it was clear we were nothing more than friends.

    • Did they know that? How did it usually turn out?

    • We were just friends. However most of the time if a guy asks to meet you he is looking for more than friendship. These were people I had a very deep emotional connection with because of mutual religious beliefs.

Recommended Questions


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 2

What Girls Said 0

The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!

Recommended myTakes