He needs you in what way?
He needs my support and help right now with the shit he's going through or he might not have the strength to continue.
You should seek help... I don't want to ask what are the problems but try to seek help from a third party... if love is still there thats the most important... I think everything else has a solution
It's not up to me to seek help and he is getting help but it's a bad time of year because all the professionals are on holiday.And our relationship was doomed from the start. He doesn't express love in a healthy way. It's too painful to be with him in that way, but by cutting the emotional romantic part out of the equation, I can still be there for him.I dunno, maybe I'm not wired like other people. I often remain friends with exes. I can just put that shit behind me and love is love, whether romantic or platonic
Sorry about that... I don't what the problem is exactly to comment and I understand its personal matter... Im getting the feeling that he is depressed or overly emotional... whatever the case I think you care about him... you should seek help together as a unit not him by himself... so you'll learn how you should respond to him too... I think if he gets healthy he would probably want you back... the problem is not you... its him right now
Yeah but there are some irreconcilable differences in our sexual preferences. I don't know if it's just because he's deeply scarred by life, but he doesn't connect love and sex at all. Sex is completely about degradation for him. I'm not sure he'll ever get beyond that. His love is something else entirely. I can't deal with that because I'm not into degradation at all.
Yes I see... I think there is a deeper problem that lead to that... that is therapy is helpful but you should be there too... let him open up about his past...
Thats obvioulsy a bad thing...
Took about a week before I actually caught on and started counting my money before and after I left the room. Confronted him, he admitted it. Told him I wouldn't make him pay it back if he left and never contacted me again.
Sry about that... he don't deserve you
What is your religion?
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Too bad :(