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I will tell you exactly why I had to let go of the girl I loved... she chose a man who beats her senseless over me. A man who beat her so bad she went temporarily blind, and put her in the hospital.
I tried to stay in her life, because her happiness was very important to me. Him, being the controlling abusive shitbag scum that he is, made every effort to prevent me from even being in her life as a friend.
She would see my messages, but just stopped replying one day. I love her unconditionally and she is always welcome to come back into my life, but I can't keep putting myself out there and injuring myself emotionally over somebody who is going to always run back to her abuser.
The only way I get to see her anymore is in my dreams. Did I ever stop loving her? Not for an instant. Did I have to let her go regardless? Yes, and it was the hardest thing I've ever done.
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