I'm just concerned that all older rich dudes may jump to the conclusion that a younger woman who is interested in him, is interested in him just because he has a fat wallet. Not because he's mature, wise, funny, and sexy (old is not equivalent to ugly).
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I think the main thing here is you don’t define him as mature, wise, funny, or sexy in the question title. You define him as old and wealthy. That makes you look like a gold digger.
The first thing you tell us about him isn’t his amazing sense of humour, his generosity or intellectual thinking, it’s his age and how much money he has.