He always tells me he loves me now after last night I don't think he does. I am attractive, and people say I could do better than him but I love him so why would he worry about that? What do I do? Does this mean he doesn't love me and never will?
Most Helpful Guy
"Does this mean he doesn't love me and never will?"
Geeeeezus you're daft. No, it doesn't mean that. Because he says he wants to love you but is terrified that you'll hurt him like that other broad did by cheating on him. He doesn't trust you and thinks its just a matter of time before you do cheat in him. If people are saying you can do better then he knows eventually you'll start to think that. You'll start believing everyone else that you're better than him and before long you'll be blowing some other dude. He knows this and it scares him.
So what do you do? Reaffirm your commitment to only him. I'm sure he does love you but he's not all in because he fears you're not. As long as you keep faithful to him and show him that then eventually he'll stop feeling so inadequate that he fears losing you.
Most Helpful Girl
People tend to say how they really feel when they're drunk. You should be careful here because it's either that he's scared because of the fact that his ex cheated and is psychologically affected OR he's using the fact that you are better than him to steer you away from him. I never believe it when people say the 'out of my league' thing because if you are blessed with someone who is gorgeous and loyal and loves you why would you look for a reason to let them go? If you love him he should love you back and cherish all the moments with you, not look for excuses to make you not love him.