Most Helpful Girl
Red flag. Drop her.
Most Helpful Guy
Red flag man talk to her about it. Tell her that you don't feel respected in your values. Talk to her through both yours and hers if she does not respect or listen to your points RUN!!!
If she is a religious virgin then yes she will want things her way only. Also don't feel that your wrong. If she won't listen then it is her problem and things will be really hard for her even in her own church. Till she learns that everything she values is not perfect she won't find a man, or she will get the wrong one sadly.