Girls, How come so many girls are so interested in sex instead of being in a real relationship?

In the last few dates that I've been on there's been a lot of pressure on me to have sex with them. All I really want to a relationship first, it's so difficult to find. One night stands are easy but relationships, impossible. Why is that? I honestly thought most girls would be more interested in a solid relationship instead of hooking up. I even had my best friend's girlfriend text me last month saying that she want me. What's wrong with some girls nowadays?

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  • Geez. Really? I wish there were more guys like you.
    The only logical reason I can come up with is that they're afraid of commitment, and they could have emotional baggage/past issues.

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    • I must be running into a lot of those girls then. I honestly rather wait on sex if it means I get to know the person first. To me that's really sexy, it's far more attractive than throwing yourself away for just anyone.

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    • Good luck with finding one. :)

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  • I prefer relationship not only hook up or booty call

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  • Because that is what so many guys want so we gave up looking for a relationship first

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  • Lots of girls get hurt but still want sex without the risk of pain again.

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    • Yeah I agree. All I can think of is that they must have trust issues. Which I can understand but if I was them I would still try for more than a one night stand

    • Yeah. I respect their choice though. I got cheated on pretty recently but I'm only 17. No where neat giving up on something serious.

    • Yeah you're good. 17 is too young to give up.

  • I dunno what girls you are talking to, but most girls want a relationship and guys just want to have sex

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  • Because it's better than getting your heart ripped out of your chest and screwed over πŸ˜‡

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    • That's probably going to happen anyway. There's just too much tension between the sexes. Like I said, my best friend's girl was trying to hook up with me last month. That doesn't sound like someone who's trying not to get hurt.

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    • I completely understand that part of it. But after awhile I just want more than that.

    • I completely understand

  • I'm the opposite... I care more about finding a real relationship. Sex comes after marriage

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  • I don't know cause I probably wouldn't have sex on a first date just not who I am. Id prefer to learn about the person sitting across from me and feel a connection rather than well Yea πŸ˜‚

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  • Not this chick

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  • we have a lot of problems and need distractions

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  • You gotta find the right girls. A woman who can respect herself

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  • It’s the trend these days

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