Would you text a girl merry Christmas if you didn’t like her more than friends? Let me elaborate. 2 weeks prior we texted a lot, mostly sexual in nature, but I voiced my concern with how he felt about me. He said he didn’t know. We didn’t text as much since I voiced this, but then his Christmas message surprised me. He wanted to wish my daughter and I a merry Christmas and hope we had a good nite. Then no contact really afterwards.