Why would a guy push me away saying he just wants to focus on his kids and work but then come back around to wanting to see me?

This pattern keeps repeating. He pushes me away then the next week he is back to being jealous of other guys and wants to hang out.

He was hurt badly in his past by his ex wife. We dated 3 months and now he is hot and cold. He has only dated one other lady since his divorce.


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What Guys Said 2

  • he's still a child in his head cut him off and find a better one

    • Well the dad thing is he is 40 years old.

    • Sad**

  • maybe he watches too much bojack horseman


What Girls Said 1

  • Cut him off until he's ready! It isn't fair that he's allowed to play with your emotions because he's been hurt in the past.

    • And I mean does the pushing me away then bringing me back in truly a behavior of someone who is scared of being hurt?

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