We ended up making out and it felt pretty hot. I am a virgin and I do not necessarily want to wait until marriage. I feel as if I’m ready if it’s with the right guy. And I asked him if he was willing to wait and he said no. It’s not apparently only due to his sex drive, he believes a couple should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a strong intimate connection. I asked him how long does he generally wait before he makes someone his girlfriend and he says labels are an external thing (as in how he’d address the person to other people). But he said, he would considered me his girlfriend because he is apparently seeing me exclusively and we are/ were intimate. Is he fucking around with me?
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Definitely not a red flag. He was being honest about it and had a reasonable explanation why. Now it's just up to you if you share his beliefs or not.