Thank you heaps!
How would you like a to initiate a conversation with you? Do you mind creating a scenario for us? Like what would be a great come up?
@ricky_okHim : Hi my name is ___ , how are you?Her : Good and you?Him : Very good ! ( talks about the place and what is around )Her : ( give answers )Him : ( talks about a passion/goal to show that you have ambitions ) Her : ( talks about hers )Then you can try to know more about her and show interest but continue talking about you or is it weird if you just talk about herHim : I really enjoyed talking to you ! I would like to have more like this with. Can I give you my fb/number?This is the best that I could imagine for you haha
Now this is actually pretty damn good, thanks. This at least gives an idea how should be. Now I just got to work on me being shy lmao
@ricky_ok just be yourself and everything is going to be okay ! :)
Thats really helpful
Happy to hear that 😁
Like how would you like a guy to start a conversation to you? Like an example? I always ask first with, "hey, I've so you go to "enter location here" you look familiar" or something like that along those lines. I don't know, sometimes it's just so damn hard to initiate a conversation, like I can easily make friends with a random dude at the gym, but with a girl, it just feels so much different.
@ricky_ok Girls get the exact same fears, it's completely normal to be nervous trying to strike up a conversation with someone your attracted to. Just say Hi my name is so and so. And ask her how she's doing or some other generic question relating to your surroundings. Saying you look familar if you haven't seen her before is disengenious and will probably just make you more nervous.
To be honest, it's just that, it's easier said than done sometimes. Like man, I know I'm not an ugly dude, at least I think lmao, it's just that, I'm deadass a shy ass guy when it comes to a pretty girl. I'll tend to walk away or avoid her because of fear of looking or sounding like a fool. I mean I'm an avid gum goer, I see a ton of pretty girls there, but I know I can't approach them there either, because it's a place where I go consistently and them as well, so where else would a guy like me meet women, besides garbage online dating apps
@ricky_ok I'm not saying it's easy, but it does get easier. Fake it till you make it.
You won't believ how much I love that quote! I feel you tho.
Thank you coralee
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"But I wouldn’t say you should go and talk to her if she’s busy. By this, I mean if she’s talking to somebody/some people, reading, has earphones in, doing “work”, or if she looks uneasy."So basically never approach a girl.
Lol girls don't get it that it is impossible because they never try xD
@JSmuve wow...I meant if she looks like she doesn’t have time to talk, then don’t bother her@FS92IT uhm I’ve actually approached guys many times. Don’t be so generalizing, sexist, stereotypical, etc. It makes you look stupid
Lol ok, you are one of the very few :)
Of course, in case a bamboo stick proves ineffective a handmade spear comes handy. Even if it's "unresponsive" you can always cut chunks of meat for further use.But one must always make sure that he remains at a safe distance of 5m from it, because if it is alive and gets provoked, the consequences can be dangerous.
@i_love_stars ok that got a bit on the creepier side of national geographic
on a serious note, dude you expect to learn game from the need? go out and approach us everyday. get sme guidelines from a mentor and approach. you can't become a driver with verbal advice.
I just gave a sarcastic remark for your opinion because I thought it was flawless. I believe it was a perfect comeback for a question like that. I literally sat laughing at it for five minutes. On a serious note, I know I suck at this game, so I'd rather not try anything and risk my safety by venturing amidst such dangerous and vile "creatures"😋😋😋😋
@i_love_stars well the comment was towards the asnwer. as for you, well not all women suck plus loneliness is unbareable. even if you see it from a pure selfish perspective you need someone in your elder years to take care of you
Yes, I've given that a bit of thought, but I believe I can survive, and you know, self euthanasia is always an option.😂😂
I know that the comment was for the asker, but I couldn't resist replying. It was like a dewdrop on a lotus leaf, so perfect and beautiful.And as the saying goes "Beauty unappreciated is Beauty wasted" or something like that, so I couldn't hold back.
@i_love_stars well in my opinion one needs to be intelligently selfish. if you have negativity except that you won't attract women, you will always live in mediocrity and anever try crazy goals. and this constant parasympathetic and cortisol dominance will slowly kill you from the inside. so being chill and optimistic is always better for a superior quality of life. women will be only the side effect of that positivity. ending one's life is a defeatist attitude. noone has the right to end what he doesn't own. we all are servants of the community and the species.
That's where you go wrong. As long as my contribution serves a part in the society, I am a servant of the community and my life is meaningful. If not, no one gives a jackshit if I live or die. I believe everyone bounds themselves to this whole evolution concept (to socialize, marry someone and reproduce, take care of your offsprings) just because they think it's the right thing to do, even when they know that following it will reduce them to be nothing more than a puppet to their own chemistry. Look, I just don't wanna argue with u about it. I'll admit defeat if u want to. I wanna remember you as the anonymous lady that "gives the most sarcastic and greatest comebacks"(😍😍😍)
And I didn't understand what "this constant parasympathetic and cortisol dominance" means...
@i_love_stars now thats the fire i wanna see. i won't argue with you cause you are not ready yet but you are a man and a thinker in the making. in a decade we will talk again and i believe i will like the progress i'm seeing 😜
I don't know who you are, but I must admit that I'm already starting to have a crush on you.😄😄😄😅😅😅.*In Arnold Schwarzenegger accent* I'll be back (after a decade)
Dude, you the man🙏🙏🙏
@i_love_stars 60% Of the time it works everytime
It's no one in particular, just i feel that i have missed so many chances to meet a pretty girl.
just tell her how you feel and if she writes you off then she is not the one
Great advice, thank you :)