Why does he hide things?

The guy I've been dating for a couple weeks doesn't reveal much about himself or talk much. I like him but can't trust him because of this.

When I ask him questions his answers are short.

He doesn't tell me important things until on the day such as his father's funeral (which he revealed he had to attend when I asked why he was in a suit?)

He also had a ring tattoo which he didn't tell me about until I asked. He is not married and had his first removal session today.

I can't tell if he is a liar or maybe has a learning difficulty that affects his communicating?

What do you think?


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What Guys Said 1

  • I think you have figured out the possibilities. Like the funeral, I have not said important things because there never seemed like a good opportunity to bring it up. A funeral is a bit much but the issue is the same. What you want to watch out for is contradictions between what he says and what you notice. That should separate reluctance to say something and lying.

    • Thankyou, you make a very good point, I will take your advice and keep an eye out for contradictions!

    • Good luck and hopefully he is just inept when it comes to communicating

What Girls Said 1

  • It's just how his personality is.


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