Now, if she texted within that 20 minutes and said she had some emergency and would be there (with estimate on time), then I would probably wait. If it was going to be another 40 minutes, I might try to reschedule, or, if not, I'd try to find another place to hang out nearby to wait for some of that time, then come back. - I'd tell her... but my time is important to me, and her never responding/being seriously late is disrespectful.
Dodged a bullet
Omg. That's so rude of him. You're way too sweet to even approach him after that as well.
Lol, that happens to me, too. Sometimes, I completely space out and lose track of time. I've driven myself home on autopilot, with no real memory of the drive itself.
YaY i am not aloneHonestly glad to hear that, started to think i maybe one of the only astronauts in these world, and the others all ready got to mars
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'Constant contact'? Ya gotta be kidding.
Yes by text... I'm in crazy traffic right now... on my way... if I hear nothing from them than I'm out of there.
One text is not 'constant contact'. Are you always so dramatic?
@Browneye57 Don't be an idiot. Read between the lines. Constant contact meaning.. regular updates if the time goes past the ETA. GEEEEEZUS.
Don't be a cunt. Why do I have to read between the lines? I commented on YOUR statement of 'constant contact'. It's ridiculous, you sound like a woman!
@Browneye57 Move on!
This guy is to old to understand texting lmao ^^^^
@joshb Trolls will be Trolls.
@dragonfly6516 LMAO that is perfect!
Browneye57 is either a troll or the dumbest person I've seen on GaG.
@ayer93 he just grew up in another time when things were simpler and innocent.
@dragonfly6516 he's also an illiterate that interprets "constant contact" as equivalent to "one text". He also uses "cunt" and "fuck off" when he gets defensive because he has no valuable input.
True. He is 60. Maybe he's going senile. He's given me good advice on here before, so my opinion of him neutral.
Here's my advice: Don't take advice from this guy.Probably the best advice you'll get in your life. That's a joke 👆😂
@Ayer93 - Ah quit yer whining. LOLCTH is a self-appointed know-it-all - I'm just calling him on his bullshit and he doesn't like it. Some you kiddies think old mean stupid or dead. Sorry, I got more on the ball that you will ever, and more years of experience with love, sex, and relationships that you've been on the planet. :)
Listen to this guy 👆, he is right!
You didn't say how long you would wait. Suppose they were just playing mind games with you. Or maybe, while you're sitting there waiting, they're actually robbing your house! Times have changed. The world isn't the innocent place you grew up in. Sadly.
@dragonfly6516 - Ridiculous. The average date you set up isn't going to rob your house. LOLBut I hear ya, I don't like people wasting my time either, and someone perpetually late tends to be more self focussed, self important - they are more important than you so they don't respect your time. But this is why you date - to make a determination on whether they're a match, whether they're worthy of your time and attention. If they don't respect you or your time then you're under no obligation to continue. If a woman was always late, didn't show up on time, regardless of the reasons, I wouldn't likely wait more than fifteen minutes. But people do have other things in their life, and there is traffic and interruptions. My recommendation is ask what is 'reasonable'. Is there a reasonable explanation for their tardiness? Or do they just not give a shit?
Told ya that this guy is experienced
That's why I always be there 15 minutes earlier
Amen, I agree with this guy.
What's this? A girl with class? You are a unicorn in a world of sheep.
Lol, I wouldn't call it class so much as common sense that you should treat people fairly and not subject them to double standards wherein you are always the benefactor.
A certain level of rational thinking in combination with emotional intelligence and empathy to me can be perceived as class. Just take the compliment with grace before I start calling you an ape lol. 😂
Lol, very well. Thank you for the kind words, dear sir. <3
See I'm the complete opposite, I would never get in a car with someone on the first date, especially if I didn't know them very well 😬
@Jassyw True, but there are ways of precautions, even for that.And you got a much different mentality than the women here in my country, if that what "sits" in your back of your head about men everytime you might wanna date...So I will kindly apologize for all those men who made you suspicious and extra-cautious, but again, those are the aftermaths of an awful world you live in...