Why is it that no matter how nice I am, or how caring I am no one notices me?


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  • Story of my life. I’m pretty sure someone does notice. They just don’t say it.

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    • I guess we're in the same boat. Its like I'm invisible to everyone else

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    • Im telling you, ur most likely noticed.

    • Hehe. maby, thanks for cheering me up

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  • Might be an unpopular opinion but if you want my thoughts being nice is like being a wall painted white/beige. It is nice and unassuming but it doesn't have any real value in and of itself. It needs pictures or something on it to make it conversation worthy. It needs to not just be 'nice' it needs to have something controversial in order for it to be noticed. In other words, I think that people need something in their personality that is a risk. Maybe people will like it, maybe they won't. That is their choice. But either way, just being nice to everyone means that you won't have people think anything of you. They won't be able to because there is nothing to hate AND nothing to like.

    Not sure if this makes sense to anyone else though...

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What Girls Said 2

  • Literally my life

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  • What exactly do you mean by 'nobody notices me' if you can be more specific I can give you a better answer?

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    • No matter how hard I try, no body knows my name, knows who I am, or even knows I'm there

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    • Everything but the stories, even with that though they just forget about me

    • No I really doubt that's true. If you engage people they'll remember you. Especially if you incorporate humour and a natural upbeat vibe.

What Guys Said 4

  • I feel that being kind is an unconditional thing, I choose to be kind because it makes me feel good to see others having a nice time. That's the reward in my opinion.

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  • You just blend in well

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  • Didn't see you message there. Woah you scared me

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  • You're not an extrovert

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