Why is he suddenly being cold to me and avoiding me?

So we went to our first date everything went well then the second date and finally third date, our third date was a step more (we kissed and held hands) so everything was good then suddenly when i arrived home he was giving me coldanswers on the text, next day he texted me at 9pm and i was like 'ohh you're alive' then he said 'sorry i'm not in the mood for texting' i said oke no prob, next day he didn't text me at all so i texted him and asked are you now in the mood to text? 😂 he said ' i don't know it's just a weird feeling..' then i told him that if he doesn't want to talk anymore he should say it to me so i won't text him anymore and put an end to everything, he was like no i want to talk but it's not that kind of feeling it's not about you, i said ' what then what is happening?' he was like i don't know i'm just not a texter you know that.. but in the beginning he texted me a lot so its weird he's behaving like this, i told him that i'll leave him alone and let him see about this texting thing. What is happening? why is he being so cold to me?

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  • Perhaps it he has some feeling about you that popped into your head and he doesn't know how to explain or is afraid to hurt your feelings. It also could be something else took his mood away and it doesn't have anything to do with you.

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  • Maybe he wants the chemistry to be there but it isn’t.

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    • is that why he went to 3 dates with me and on our third date kissed me and held my hands?

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    • he knows that he is my first kiss..

    • First times are never great.
      You onlybet better with practice.

  • Hmm he's not intrested in you anymore. You have to find the reason

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  • Beats my two pair. This is strange.

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  • When I first meet someone I text more than usual. I'm normally busy and don't have time to talk throughout the day. After a few days, the constant texting gets old and becomes a chore. I can't stand all day texting. More can be said in 20 minutes of live conversation than 20 minutes of texting. I'm an radiology tech and I'm busy. I check my phone at lunch, make a few replies and thats it. Have zero patience for a needy woman who likes to text all day long.

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